Over the years I have stumbled upon a lot of girl tips with a lot of fluff and no substance. Often the same rehashed few pieces of advice are borderline useless, if not completely wrong.
Here I promise to cut the fat and present you the tips you’ll appreciate when interacting with women.
Be genuine in what you say, they’ll always know.
This is probably the hardest thing for people in our society to do. Everyone’s worried about image that they forget about being themselves and speaking their mind. In our fake plastic world, women CRAVE something real to hold on to.
Happiness is contagious, be happy.
Want your woman to be happy? Be happy yourself.
Don’t gloat about your happiness, or even talk about.. just BE IT. Like yawning, happyness is contagious and will make people happy to be around you.
Always grow, but grow in the same direction as your partner.
People change, and that’s good! You should evolve and constantly be improving yourself as well. It’s these small improvements that make us proud of who we are which is a very attractive trait to posses. If you already have a girlfriend (or if you want one, read how to get a girlfriend), or a wife, make sure you grow together in the same direction for a long lasting, happy relationship.
Girls like to play
In every sense of the word, girls like to play. Sitting down on a chair for a 2 hour dinner is NOT fun. It’s much more fun to wrestle each other playfully. Try to get into the habit of playing more often and have less ‘boring life moments’.
Have a social life!
Girls are by nature very social creatures and social circles are very important to them. I once heard of a girl that stayed with her boyfriend for 2 years just because she liked his friends. Breaking up with him meant that she wouldn’t get to hang out with them anymore, so she stayed with him mainly because of the friends.
A man that has a good social circle will always be more successful than one who is lonely. It’s not what you know, it’s who you know!
Now one of the final and the most important of all girl tips is a trick that allows you to know EXACTLY when a girl is ready to be kissed. Using this trick, you’ll always move in at the right moment for the kiss. I found this tip in one of the most influential books of my life, Double Your Dating, which is a highly recommend read for anyone that really wants to know how to attract women and have them fall in love with you.
Knowing what I know now, if I had to start all over, then that’s where I would start.